Get time with him
Love doesn’t necessarily happen right away. For many people,
they fall in love with someone over a course of time spent with them. This is
why it’s important to get as much time together with him if you want his love.
This should be done through; hanging out after work, with or
without friends involved, going on hikes on the weekend, having lunch breaks
together, going out for coffee, and just plain talking with each other.
Whatever the occasion, spend as much time as you can with him. If there are no
opportunities to spend with him, make the opportunity and organize the
activity. Getting to spend time with him is an important aspect when it comes
to people falling in love.
Selling yourself
Deciding to get into a relationship with someone can be
compared to selling a product. Regardless of the quality of the product,
sometimes it’s the selling technique that matters.
When it comes to getting him to fall in love with you, you
need to sell yourself. There are probably many great qualities about yourself,
but he doesn’t know that. Even though he may know you, he may overlook the
great characteristics about you. Knowing someone takes time, and he’s not
psychic.
Highlighting the great qualities about yourself can be done
through casually mentioning them, or the activities you do that highlight those
traits. So if you’re compassionate, mention how you volunteer or the activities
you are going to do in the week that highlights that. Don’t let it go
unnoticed. If you want to be a little more subtle, get you friend to mention it
to him instead of yourself.
Keep yourself on
his mind
Another important factor in people falling in love, is
keeping yourself on his mind. Unless you’re constantly on his mind, he won’t
fall in love with you. But fortunately there is something you can do about
that.
One way to keep yourself on his mind is through a direct
approach, sending texts or posts on his Facebook. Do this often enough that he
doesn’t forget about you but not too frequently so that you give him a chance
to miss you, probably 2-3 days since you last saw him.
If the direct approach is being used too much, try switching
to other indirect approaches. Getting a friend to bring you up in their
conversations, or by giving him things such as cookies, or items such as a
chair you don’t use that he may need. These things can remind him of you when
he sees them long after they’ve been given away. An additional tip is spray
them with a little of your perfume as scent is the strongest way of bringing
memories to people.
What you talk about
Another tip in getting him to fall for you is in what you
talk about. The times you do spend talking with each other, try not to talk
about the mundane things in life. You want to keep your conversations exciting
by talking about exciting things, things you are passionate about, and things
that he is passionate about. This is how your conversations will stand out in
his mind, talking about boring and usual topics will not stand out in his mind.
This is also a good way of building fond memories that he may look back on and
reminisce, another factor in falling for someone.
The stories you
tell him
It is inevitable that people will ask the question of how
their weekend was, or ask how they have been doing. When you tell him stories
about the things you did, try and tell him exciting stories. Your goal is to
paint an exciting picture of your life in his mind. People yearn and want to be
part of something exciting in life; this includes someone with an appealing
life who is constantly doing interesting things. This way it will force you to
start doing adventurous activities and start living your life a little.
The right look
Obviously physical attraction plays a huge part when it
comes to falling in love. So you need to take advantage of it by finding out
what features about a woman he’s into. By learning what he’s attracted to
through; his ex-girlfriends, getting friends to ask him, or casually asking
him, you can highlight those features in yourself.
On top of the right look, pairing it up with the right scent
is important. Where there is only so much a person can do about their looks, no
one has an excuse for not wearing the right scent. Remember to wear the perfume
enough so that he is reminded of you when he smells it. If you have done this
successfully, you can leave your scent around places that he comes in contact
with; this is a good way of reminding him of you in a discreet and subtle way.
Getting someone to fall in love may not entirely be up to
you; however there are aspects of love that can be manipulated in your favor.
Using these tips, along with some practice, you can get a man to fall in love
with you.
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